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英国有社会心理学家指出，说闲话是人类独有的特性。一项研究指出，人类所有对话中有八成是“八卦”闲话。 据大公网报道，说闲话促进信任和合作，容许我们建立的社会，较诸其它生物所建立的更大、更有趣和更复杂。萨里大学的社会心理学家埃姆勒向三百人进行的一项研究显示，说他人闲话占我们的谈话内容八成。 随着时间流逝，说闲话可以证明是一种重要的生存工具，互相分享趣闻有助史前穴居人捉贼和选领袖。埃姆勒在五日至十日于萨里郡吉尔福德市举行的英国科学节上说：“狒狒和黑猩猩的社会是复杂的，因为那儿的所有成员互相了解甚深。但因为它们无法交谈，所以它们唯有依靠直接的观察。也因为这样，它们每一群的成员数目都只限于五十左右。而我们(人类)和它们的分别就在我们能交谈。我们可以交换社会信息。我们可以建构出比起其它动物所建构的更复杂的社会，因为我们会七情上面地说闲话。一个人的观看和观察所得是有限的。但只要说闲话，你不必去亲身认识十万人也可以对这个数目的人略知一二。” 虽然闲话占我们的谈话内容达八成，但有恶意的闲话却不足百分之五。虽然女性被定性为比男性更爱说闲话，但其实男性以负面态度谈论人们外观的机会比女性高出一倍。 |
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Men spend more time gossiping than women, poll finds
Gordon Brown and Barack Obama exchange a joke during a recent White House visit. Men are bigger gossips than women, according to new research. Men are bigger gossips than women, according to new research. A study has found that men spend an average 76 minutes a day tittle-tattling with their friends or work colleagues, compared to just 52 minutes for women. Favourite topics include the antics of drunken friends, old school friends, and the most attractive girl at work. The poll of 5,000 people was conducted by global research company www.onepoll.com It found the office is the preferred place for men to exchange gossip, whereas women prefer to confide in their friends from the comfort of their own home. A third of men are happiest when chatting with work colleagues, and 58 per cent admit that being a gossip makes them feel "part of the gang". And for 31 per cent of men, having a gossip with their partner is actually better than sexual relations. Other topics good for male chat include the local news agenda, rumours about possible relationships in the office or the boss, promotions, sex and salaries. A spokesman for Onepoll said: "It is commonly believed that women are the ones who love to spread rumours, and gossip about their friends behind their backs. "But this poll proves that men aren't as bad as women, they're worse! Men just love a bit of scandal, and will do anything they can to be centre of attention with their colleagues and peers. "At the end of the day, hot gossip spices up what would otherwise be another boring day at the office." Women also love to talk about news, but rather than focusing on politics or government issues, news about soap operas and celebrities are more likely to cause a debate. And any type of relationship is up for discussion – whether it is their own, their friends, their friends' friends or their bond with their mother-in-law. More than half of women openly admit to regularly discussing the ins and outs of their private lives with their friends. But whereas men's discussions are more influenced by what is happening at work, women are more inclined to take note of celebrity lifestyles, soap gossip and other people. A spokesman for Onepoll continued: "Although they discuss very different things during their gossiping sessions, men and women agree on one thing – talking with mates, work colleagues or partners makes them feel like they belong." MEN'S GOSSIP TOPICS 1. Drunken friends 2. News 3. Old school friends 4. Female colleagues at work 5. The sexiest girl at work 6. Spreading rumours 7. Promotions 8. Sexual relationships 9. Salaries 10. The boss WOMEN'S GOSSIP TOPICS 1. Other women 2. News 3. Relationship problems 4. Other people's relationships 5. Sexual relationships 6. Friend's weight gain 7. Soap operas 8. Other women's boyfriends / husbands 9. The mother-in-law 10. Celebrities (Agencies) |
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最新调查表明，男人比女人还爱“八卦”。 一项调查发现，男人每天与朋友或同事闲聊的时间平均为76分钟，而女人仅为52分钟。 其中聊得最多的话题包括朋友喝醉后的滑稽丑态、老校友以及漂亮的女同事等等。 这项共有五千人参与的民调由www.onepoll.com全球调查公司开展。 调查发现，男人最爱在办公室里闲聊，而女人则更爱在自己舒适的家中与朋友互聊心声。 三分之一的男士与同事闲聊时最开心，58%的人坦称参与“八卦”让他们觉得自己是“组织的一部分”。 31%的男士称与伴侣闲聊其实比性接触感觉更好。 男人们爱聊的其它话题包括当地最近发生的新闻、办公室恋情传闻或者上司、晋升、性以及薪水等。 Onepoll的一位发言人称：“普遍观点认为，女人爱散播谣言以及在背后议论朋友。” “但这项民调证明，与女人相比，男人是有过之而无不及！男人爱中伤别人，而且会尽其所能成为同事们关注的焦点。” “最后，热议的八卦话题为原本无聊的一天增加了乐趣。” 女人们也爱谈论新闻事件，但政治或政府事务并非她们关注的焦点，肥皂剧和名人更容易引起她们的讨论。 而且任何类型的人际关系都可成为女人们谈论的话题——无论是她们自己的、朋友的、朋友的朋友的还是婆媳关系。 超过一半的女性坦称她们常与朋友谈论自己的私人生活。 而男人谈论的话题则更多地受到工作中发生的事情的影响，女人们则更关注明星的生活、肥皂剧和其他人。 Onepoll的发言人说：“尽管男人和女人闲聊时的话题大不相同，但他们在一点上是一致的，那就是与朋友、同事或伴侣聊天会让他们有归属感。” 男人们的八卦话题 1、 喝醉的朋友2、 新闻 3、 老校友 4、 女同事 5、 漂亮女同事 6、 传闻 7、 晋升 8、 性关系 9、 薪水 10、 老板 女人们的八卦话题 1、 其他女人 2、 新闻 3、 人际关系 4、 其他人的人际关系 5、 性关系 6、 朋友的体重 7、 肥皂剧 8、 朋友的男友/老公 9、 婆婆 10、 名人 （英语点津姗姗编辑） |
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